PI-09 / Index
The map
Every page on the island, in one list. Regions are the wide territories. Guides are the walked routes. Tools are consulted rather than read. Notes are shorter pieces with no instruction in them at all.
The island has one entrance and no required order. Regions are the best starting point for a reader who does not yet know what they are looking for, since each one opens onto the guides that belong to it. Anyone who already knows the question should go straight to the guide or the table that answers it. The reference tools in particular are built to be opened, consulted and closed again rather than read from the top.
Regions
- SoloPI-01. Attention, privacy and the fastest feedback loop there is.
- TogetherPI-02. Two nervous systems, one pace, and the signals that keep them aligned.
- BodyPI-03. Anatomy and arousal, described accurately and without diagrams.
- GearPI-04. Toys as objects with materials, motors and limits.
- CarePI-05. Lubricant, cleaning, storage and the half hour afterwards.
Field guides
- All guidesThe index of the fourteen guides, grouped by region.
- How desire worksSpontaneous and responsive desire, and why context does most of the work.
- Body mappingA method for finding out what a body responds to, slowly and on purpose.
- The clitorisMostly internal, densely innervated, and larger than the diagrams suggest.
- The g spotWhat the evidence supports, what it does not, and what the area actually is.
- Orgasm mythsSimultaneity, ranking, timing and the myth of the single correct route.
- A first vibratorHow to choose one badly, and how to choose one that gets used.
- Suction toysPressure waves rather than vibration, and why the sensation is so divisive.
- Wand vibratorsDeep, broad, powerful motors, and how to make them less blunt.
- G spot toysCurves, firmness and the difference between pressure and vibration.
- Toys for twoWhat changes when a third object enters a two person situation.
- Anal play basicsAnatomy, pacing, lubricant and the flared base rule.
- Choosing lubricantWater, silicone, oil and hybrid, with the chemistry that decides which.
- Body safe materialsPorosity, plasticisers and why the material matters more than the shape.
- Cleaning and storageWashing that matches the material, drying properly, and storing without damage.
Reference tools
- Material guideSeven materials against porosity, heat tolerance, cleaning and what to avoid.
- Lubricant compatibilityFour lubricant bases against condoms, silicone, glass and steel.
- Sensation finderA described sensation matched to a toy category, with the reason attached.
- Travel checklistPacking and hygiene for travel and festivals, with a tick off list.
Field notes
- Pleasure as restArousal without a target, and what changes when the goal is removed.
- Talking about desireOn the thinness of the vocabulary and how to work around it.
- The case for slownessWhy the warm up period is physiological rather than romantic.
- Why the first toy is often wrongThe first purchase is a guess. Some guesses are better informed.
- Light, sound, temperatureThree simple settings with a disproportionate effect on arousal.
- Distance and intimacyDesire across a gap, and what absence does to attention.
Reference and standard pages
- GlossaryForty two terms defined properly, including the ones used loosely elsewhere.
- AboutWhat this site is, how it is written, and what it refuses to do.
- ContactOne address, and what is worth writing about.
- PrivacyWhat is collected, and the short answer is almost nothing.
- CookiesThere are none. The short explanation of why.